Wedding photographer client onboarding checklist

The principle: ask for what they can answer

Couples answer questions about what they already know. They do not yet know the ceremony time six months ahead, or the family list a year ahead. A questionnaire that asks both at once gets half-answered, and then you chase the half that matters. Spread the asks over time and each answer is easy.

The checklist, by date

When	You send or do	You ask for
Booking day	Confirmation email, contract link, retainer link, a note on what happens next	Signed contract and retainer
Within a week	Welcome packet: how you work, how to reach you, what to expect	Preferred names, phone number, best way to reach them
Within a month	Stage 1 questionnaire: names, venues, who is involved, planner and other vendors	Venue addresses, planner contact
6 months before	Check-in email, a short sample timeline for their style of day	A first idea of the order of the day
3 months before	Stage 2 questionnaire: family groups, must-have moments, special people, any sensitivities	Family list with names, must-have list
2 months before	Venue and light check, draft timeline	Confirmation of ceremony and reception times
6 weeks before	Updated timeline, family list draft with time estimates	Feedback and any changes; name of the person to gather family
4 weeks before	Final balance reminder if one is due; second shooter confirmed and booked	Final headcount for the family list, balance paid
2 weeks before	Final timeline, vendor contact sheet, wet-weather plan	Sign-off on the timeline
1 week before	Short email: final times, addresses, what to have ready (details, invitation suite, rings, dress hung in light), who to call on the day	Phone number for someone who is not the couple
Day before	Gear check, charge batteries, format cards, send a one-line “see you tomorrow”	Nothing
Wedding day	Arrive early, confirm the timeline with the planner or a trusted person	Nothing
After	Backup the same night, thank-you message, sneak peek on the promised date	Nothing yet

The names of the months are a guide. If the couple books six weeks before the wedding, compress: skip the early steps and send stage 1 and stage 2 together, with a note that explains why.

Booking day: three items

Send the confirmation email. The inquiry reply emails include one.
Make sure the contract and retainer are done, with a reminder date in your calendar. Contract topics are in what a contract should cover.
Add the couple to your tracker, with the date, venue and every deadline you have promised.

The welcome packet

A welcome packet is the single place where the couple learns how you work. Keep it to one page or one email. It should say how you communicate, how long replies take, what you will ask for and when, and how the day is built. The welcome packet guide has the sections.

The questionnaire in stages

Three stages tend to work:

Stage 1, after booking: names and pronunciations, venues, planner, other vendors, how they met if you like. Short.
Stage 2, about three months before: family groups, must-have moments, sensitive situations, traditions, accessibility needs.
Stage 3, about two weeks before: confirmed timings, day-of contacts, anything that changed.

The staged questionnaire guide sorts every question into a stage, and questions to ask wedding clients lists the questions themselves.

Timeline and family list

Share a sample timeline early, because it teaches the couple how long things take. Replace it with a real one once the ceremony time is fixed. For the family list, ask for names, not categories, and one person who can gather everyone. Time it with the numbers in the family formals arithmetic.

Vendors and the venue

Planner or coordinator: send them the timeline, and ask for theirs.
Venue: ask about the rules, the room ready time and the weather plan.
DJ or band: ask for the order of events and the first dance time.
Florist: ask when bouquets and buttonholes will be ready.
Videographer, if any: agree on positions during the ceremony.

Second shooter

Confirm them four weeks out and send the one-page brief with the call time, contacts, positions and file rules in the last week. See second shooter tips.

The tracker

A spreadsheet with these columns is enough:

Column	Example
Names and date	[A] and [B], [date]
Venue and city	Name, town
Contract and retainer	Signed, retainer paid, balance due [date]
Questionnaire stage	1 done, 2 pending
Timeline	Draft, final, signed off
Family list	Waiting, received, timed
Vendors	Planner, DJ, florist, with contacts
Next action and date	Send stage 2 on [date]

Sort by “next action date” each Monday, and do the top five. Workflow for what happens after the wedding is in a wedding photographer workflow from inquiry to delivery, and the gallery step is in the gallery delivery checklist.

Common mistakes

Asking for the timeline before the ceremony time is fixed.
Sending the whole questionnaire at once.
Not saying what happens if they do not reply.
Changing the timeline without sending the final version again.
Holding the day-of contact only in your head.
Skipping the last email because “they know already”.

If the wedding is close

Not every couple books a year ahead. When the date is under three months away, compress the checklist:

Time left	What to merge
8 to 12 weeks	Stages 1 and 2 together in one email, with the draft timeline
4 to 8 weeks	All three stages in one call and one follow-up email, with a short list of what is still missing
Under 4 weeks	A 30-minute call, a one-page summary of what was agreed, then the final timeline and the contact sheet

The aim does not change: names, places, times, family groups and a person to call. Everything else is a bonus.

Messages that need a human voice

Some emails should not be automated, whatever your system does. Write them by hand when a couple tells you about a family illness, a change of plan, a nervous worry or a loss. Use your tracker to notice the date, not to write the sentence. A reminder to yourself to call a couple the week before is worth more than the best template, and a short, personal note after the wedding will be remembered longer than the gallery link.

Questions, answered

How early should onboarding start?

The same day the couple books. A confirmation email with the next steps costs you five minutes and tells them what to expect. The rest is spaced out by weeks, and the heavy requests come in the last two months.

Should I send the whole questionnaire at once?

Usually no. Split it by when the answers are knowable: names and venues at booking, family groups and the must-have list in the middle, timing details close to the date. See the staged questionnaire guide.

What if a couple does not reply?

Send one reminder after a few days, then a short message that says what you will do if you do not hear: for example, use your default timeline. Silence is also information, and a plan that works without them is a safety net.

How do I keep track of many couples at once?

Use a simple tracker with one row per wedding: names, date, contract, retainer, questionnaire, timeline, family list, vendor contacts, and next action date. It does not need to be software, only consistent.

The questionnaire, timeline, shot list and six emails. The studio kit has the files this checklist keeps pointing to, including the questionnaire, the day-of timeline, a one-page shot list and six emails ($39).

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